Posts made in July, 2007

Lucy Grealy & Ann Patchett

Posted by on Jul 23, 2007 in Book Reviews | 1 comment

This is the story of a real life friendship, as told from different perspectives, & at different times, through several books. While both of the authors are brilliant writers, what stands out the most is what amazing friends they were.  Their friendship is legendary. These books are so intertwined both in their stories, & in my thoughts, that I decided to post them all together.  It was chance that all three of them came to me at one time, but I think at least the last two books should be read together.  I guess I should probably at some point mention their names, Lucy Grealy & Ann Patchett.

Bel Canto by Ann Patchett:  This is a work of fiction by Ann Patchett.  It’s about terrorists taking an opera hostage in an unnamed South American country. It made me realize that I haven’t read a lot of thrillers written by women.  I don’t know if they have just escaped me, or if there aren’t just a lot written, but Ann definitely holds her own in this genre.  Plus she has the added perspective of really being able to develop the emotional side of her characters which is often missing in such books.  The only downfall of this book was that I now have to deviate from Rory’s book list & read the rest of Ann’s books.

Autobiography of a Face By Lucy Grealy:  This is the autobiography of a poet named Lucy Grealy, who had cancer at the age of nine & had a third of her jaw removed.  It documents her life, her struggle to find beauty, & many failed surgeries. It really made me feel differently about beauty. At times the book was so honest, that I actually blushed.  Not because of the subject material, but because it’s rare that anyone is so open about their life & their family.  At the time I wondered how her family felt about this?  I decided it was ok because everyone has the right to tell their life’s story.

Truth & Beauty by Ann Patchett: Ann & Lucy were very close friends for a number of years.  They saw each other through boyfriends & husbands, going from careers as penniless writers, to becoming published & famous.  This book was written after Lucy accidentally overdosed on heroin & passed away.  Again, I blushed at the candor, but this time I couldn’t say it was the author’s right to tell the story.  It was interesting to see such a detailed account of the same events that Lucy chronicled, but through her friends eyes.  It was like reading a very well written tabloid.  I WANTED to know more about this friendship, but I felt guilty when I realized, I had no right to this information.  Especially after reading an article Lucy’s sister wrote about how Ann highjacked her grief.

It’s an extremely complicated friendship, that for whatever reason has been made public, maybe too public.  The books put together were definitely the most thought provoking of anything I’ve read on Rory’s book list, if solely for the fact that I didn’t feel like I had the right to read them, to think that I understood two people so well that I had never met. However, it really got me thinking about what beauty & friendship is & so I think it was worth it.

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Why I Love Luke

Posted by on Jul 21, 2007 in Gilmore Dating | 2 comments

I always say that I want to end up with a Luke. I’ve never really sat down to define what exactly this means, I just know when I see “Not a Luke”. (As a sidenote I think the Luke to Non-Luke ratio in the world is very dangerous & unfair.) So to me a Luke would:

1. Be a little grumpy, manly, but always take care of everyone around him, in his own gruff way.

2. Be dependable, once Luke Danes is in your life he’s in your life.

3. Consistent. Luke pretty much loved the same woman for 7 years.

4. Work hard.

5. Constantly full of surprises.

6. Sarcasm. If he’s going to be with me, he really has to understand the art of sarcasm or I will just make him cry & that goes against number 1.

Now, I understand that everything I just mentioned isn’t applicable to Season 6-7, so I just want a non sucky non season 6-7 Luke, is that asking so much?

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Rory’s Book Club: The Heart of Darkness

Posted by on Jul 20, 2007 in Book Reviews | 0 comments

Never before have I read such a short book that felt so long. Joseph Conrad is probably what was considered an eloquent writer. However, I didn’t understand one single thing that was being said. This makes it more than a little difficult to offer a fair review.

It might have been a good book. It was like reading a different language, there’s no way that I can pick up a book in French, read it, & say “ah yes, this deserves four pop tarts” I definitely could have used some “Heart of Darkness” cliff notes. It’s a good thing that I wasn’t being quizzed.

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